Use this as a starting point for the photographs that matter to you, then make it your own.
Begin with people, not a shot count
Think about who you want to remember being there. A short family list with names and relationships can make group portraits smoother and ensure the people closest to you are included.
Consider the small details with meaning
If an heirloom, handwritten note, or borrowed accessory carries a story, set it aside together so it is easy to find. You do not need to style every object; choose the few details that genuinely matter.
Make room for unscripted moments
A checklist can help with important family portraits, but leave space for the spontaneous parts of the celebration. The way your friends greet you, a quiet pause, and the joy on the dance floor may become favorites.
Share priorities ahead of time
Send your photographer the names, relationships, and any meaningful moments you hope to remember before the wedding. Then let them do their work while you stay in the day.
A final note
Your wedding belongs to you. Use these ideas as a guide, keep what feels helpful, and let the rest go.